PROBLEM AND SOLUTION

Today our class actually in the morning,,but,,Miss Zu have an emergency case so we have to make it at night,as usual,when we in lab we make an essay,,we do essay Problem and Solution today,,we are divided into 5 group and each of group must choose 1 video which is our topic in that movie that we choose,,my group choose video number 4 and get a topic women abuse men,,have u heard women abuse men,,haha I never heard and it 1st time for me,,

My point is women do the abusing to the men because they have being a victim of physical assault. Sometimes they feel depression because of work or they have a bad history in the past. In modern era globalisation,women tend to be like a men where they want the same position like men and they will feel depress due to achieve what they want. So when they feel depress or stress they will release their depression to another person such us to the men. For example, a girl slap or hit their partner because depress. In order to curve this physical assault  they can attend the anger managment and motivatioanal classes to reduce their depression. Media massa such us television or internet,they can introduce to public about anger managment classes to control their anger and usually that class called hypnotherapy where this therapy can release stress,anger and depression. For those who feel depress, they can attend this class.

here is the full essay of problem and solution

WOMAN ABUSE A MAN

Commonly, today we had listen a lot of social problem that involved many people such as vandalism, gangsters, rape, and abuse. Usually, people nowadays do not care if a man has been abuse by woman because we do not always listen about this issue. Can you think why a man does not take this case to the serious process? That is because they feel embarrassed to say that they were abuse by a woman. Some of men assume that abuse by woman is such a joking. Hence, women abuse a man can lead to various problem which are physical abuse, woman have higher standard than man, and woman who are raised by many brothers.

Women do the abusing to the men because they have being a victim of physical assault. Sometimes they feel depression because of work or they have a bad history in the past. In modern era globalisation, women tend to be like a men where they want the same position like men and they will feel depress due to achieve what they want. So when they feel depress or stress they will release their depression to another person such us to the men. For example, a girl slap or hit their partner because depress. In order to curve this physical assault they can attend the anger management and motivational classes to reduce their depression. Media mass such us television or internet, they can introduce to public about anger management classes to control their anger and usually that class called hypnotherapy where this therapy can release stress, anger and depression. For those who feel depress, they can attend this class.

A woman has higher position than men will also affect women abusing men. Many of women in Malaysia have higher position compared than their partner, because of that they are proud and insulted .C.Meyer (n.d) states that every 38 percent of  man is abused by a wife or girlfriend in the United States.  Abused men are not smaller or physically weaker than the women who abuse them. Abused men are usually not using their greater size or strength to hurt their abusive partners even when they are being hurt. Men who are suffered physical abuse make it silence because they are afraid that no one will believe them or take them seriously. Moreover, 20 percent of men who have been attacked by their girlfriends thought it is funny. In fact, some men who do try to get help find that they are ridicule and many of men are too embarrassed to admit that they are being abused by their partner. In order to curb women abusing men, a man has to work hard to get a good job. With the good job, women can’t abuse men and will not insult them.

Finally, factors that effects in abuse of men is influenced by the attitudes of many male siblings. That means, a woman who has a many male siblings in a family easy for her to follow a characteristic as male. So it can give an effect to a girl. For example, Shetteredmen says “in my house, being raised with a sister and three brothers, so it can give an affect to her such as she will be brutality”. Many brothers in a family can influence a sister to become brutality. In order, to solve this problem is they need to change themselves to be pure women. Other than that, they should have a gentle nature as a woman. As a result, abused men happen because women an influenced with her male sibling.

All in all, there are many factors of women abusing men which are they have being a physical assault, being raised with many brothers and women have higher position than men. However, it can be solved by many solutions that is attend the anger class, change their personality to be a more feminine women and the men need to work hard to have a good job so that they can have the higher position compare with the women. Therefore every party need to play their roles to solve this problem so that the men can get back their pride as a leader in family and also in the real world.    

REFRENCES

  

Cathy Meyer, When Women Abuse Men. Retrieved on February 16, 2009, from             http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2009/02/16/when-women-abuse-men.htm

Cathy Meyer, (n.d)  , Prevent Violence Of Works, Retrieved August 27, 2012 from           http://www.prevention-violence.com/en/int-121.asp

Dr. Claudia Cornell on the emotional abuse of men by women.Retrieved on March 26, 2010, from http://www.theupperdeck.com/?p=641

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we submit the essay on Wednesday.